Psychologists believe that people have some weaknesses in life, and these weaknesses make people easily affected by the outside world.
Everyone has human psychological weaknesses. More or less, you will encounter several psychological weaknesses that you cannot control yourself. Only by seeing them clearly can you guide yourself better.
Everyone has a double-sided psychology, with both a strong side and a weak side. Psychological weaknesses will make you lack self-confidence in life and hinder your own nourishment. We must abandon psychological weaknesses, so what are the common psychological weaknesses?
Eight common psychological weaknesses:
- Suspiciousness
People who are suspicious always make up some causal relationships to explain why others behave and speak the way they do. If a woman sees someone talking in a low voice, she thinks they are talking about her.
- Strive for fairness
Striving for absolutely fair results, always complaining about the unfairness of the world, and hating people who are better than themselves.
- Should theory
Many people’s emotions are manipulated by ‘should theory’. For example, if I am nice to someone, he should express gratitude to me, otherwise, he will be depressed.
- Dependence
Some people are dependent on the opposite sex and cannot support their emotional life once they leave. The best way to get out of this emotional trap is to be independent.
- Seeking approval
Many people regard gaining the approval of others as a powerful controlling force. The essence is: ‘do not believe in themselves.’
- Perfect Madness
The perfectionist demands that everything he or others do must be perfect, but in the end, it makes himself or others unacceptable.
- Self-righteousness
People with self-importance always use the excuse that their nature is difficult and do not want to change or develop themselves. In fact, I am afraid of restraining myself and begging to forgive myself.
- Guilt maniac
Excessive guilt is a deformed sense of responsibility, and one always takes the initiative to take on responsibilities that are not one’s own. This kind of mood is naturally extremely harmful to the body and mind.
So what are your psychological weaknesses? Test it out.
