What is MBTI?
MBTI is a personality test classification index. It is a personality assessment test proposed by Isabel Briggs Myers and her mother Katharine Cook Briggs in 1942 after long-term research based on Swiss psychologist Carl Jung’s book ‘Psychological Types’.
Through the question and answer tendencies of the test, 16 personality types are roughly combined, allowing the test taker to further explore and understand their own personality, such as ‘personal likes and dislikes’, ‘strengths and weaknesses’, ‘possible career preferences’ or relationships with others. Interactive style.
Of course, none of the 16 personality types are absolutely good or bad, and no one type is better or worse than the others. The purpose is to understand the truer self, explain that people may have different reactions and emotions when facing the same thing, and different majors and occupations may be more suitable for which type of people.
If you don’t know your MBTI personality type yet, you can take the test in this article first.
Other versions of MBTI professional personality free online test address (in theory, the more questions, the more accurate the test results will be): www.psyctest.cn/mbti/
MBTI Type 16 Personality Test (28-question version)
You don’t need to think about each question for a long time, just follow your intuition.
- Where do you tend to get strength from:
(E) Others
(I) own thoughts
- When you attend a social gathering, you:
(E) When the night is deep, once you start to get involved, you may be the last one to leave.
(I) At the beginning of the night, I am tired and want to go home
- Which of the following things sounds more appealing to you?
(E) Go to a place with a lot of people and frequent social activities with your lover.
(I) Stay home and do something special with your lover, like watching a funny video and enjoying your favorite takeout food.
- On dates, you usually:
(E) Overall very talkative.
(I) Be quiet and reserve until you feel comfortable.
- In the past, most of your friends of the opposite sex you met were:
(E) At parties, nightclubs, at work, at leisure events, at meetings or when friends introduce me to their friends.
(I) Through personal means, such as personal advertising, video dating, or introductions by close friends and family.
- You tend to have:
(E) Many acquaintances and close friends.
(I) Some very close friends and some acquaintances.
- In the past, your friends and colleagues have tended to say to you:
(E) Can’t you just be quiet for a while?
(I) Could you please come out of your world for a moment?
- Which of the following methods do you prefer to collect information:
(N) Your imagination and expectations of what might happen.
(S) Your actual perception of the current situation.
- You tend to believe:
(N) Your intuition.
(S) Your direct observation and existing experience.
- When you are in a relationship, you tend to believe:
(N) There is always room for improvement.
(S) If it is not damaged, it will not be repaired.
- When you feel comfortable about a date, you tend to talk about:
(N) The future, about the possibilities of improving or inventing things and life. For example, you might talk about a new scientific invention, or a better way to express your feelings.
(S) Something practical, concrete, about the ‘here and now.’ For example, you might talk about a great way to taste wine, or about a novel trip you’re about to take.
- You are this kind of person:
(N) Likes to look at the big picture first.
(S) Likes to master the details first.
- This is the type of person you are
(N) It is better to live in imagination than to live in reality.
(S) It is better to live in reality than in imagination.
- You usually:
(N) Tends to imagine a lot of things about an upcoming date.
(S) Tends to think about upcoming dates in a reserved way, expecting only to let them happen naturally.
- You tend to make decisions like this:
(F) Follow your heart first, then your logic.
(T) Follow your logic first, then your heart.
- You tend to be more aware of:
(F) When people need emotional support.
(T) When people are illogical.
- When breaking up with someone:
(F) You tend to get stuck in your emotions and find it difficult to get out.
(T) Even though you feel hurt, once you make up your mind, you will straightforwardly throw away the shadow of your past lover.
- When interacting with a person, you tend to value:
(F) Emotional Compatibility: Expresses affection and is sensitive to the needs of the other person.
(T) Intellectual Compatibility: Communicating important ideas; discussing and debating matters objectively.
- When you disagree with your lover:
(F) You try your best to avoid hurting the other person’s feelings; you won’t say anything if it would hurt the other person.
(T) You usually speak without reservation and are forthright with your lover because what is right is right.
- People who know you tend to describe you as:
(F) Passion and sensitivity.
(T) Logical and clear.
- You view most encounters with others as:
(F) Friendly and important.
(T) For other purposes.
- If you had time and money and your friend invited you to go on vacation abroad and notified you until the day before, you would:
(J) You must check your schedule first.
(P) Pack your bags immediately.
- On a first date:
(J) If the person you made an appointment with comes late, you will be unhappy.
(P) Don’t care at all, because you yourself are often late.
- Do you prefer:
(J) Know the date’s itinerary in advance: where you’re going, who’s going to be there, how long you’ll be there, how you’re going to dress.
(P) Let the date happen naturally without much advance planning.
- The life you choose is filled with:
(J) Scheduling and Organization.
(P) Spontaneous occurrence and elasticity.
- Which one is more common:
(J) You show up on time while everyone else is late.
(P) Everyone else shows up on time but you are late.
- Are you the kind of person who likes:
(J) Make up one’s mind and make final, positive conclusions.
(P) Broaden your options and continue to gather information.
- You are this type of person:
(J) Like to concentrate on one thing for a period of time until it is completed.
(P) Enjoy doing several things at the same time.
Sub-score:
| dimensions | type | score | type | score |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Energy Control | E | I | ||
| Understand the world | N | S | ||
| Judging things | F | T | ||
| Life attitude | J | P |
**Test result personality type: **
The higher-scoring letters in each pair represent your four strongest preferences, which, when combined, determine your personality type.
For example, you might be (ENFP), or (ISTJ), or any of the sixteen personality types, depending on the combination of those four letters. If the score for your preferred letter is four, that means the preference is moderate. A score of five or six indicates a preference for crescendos. A score of seven represents a very strong preference.
Analysis of MBTI Sixteen Types of Personality Love Matching
1. Intellectual Philosopher Type (INFP)
If you are a philosopher type
Imagine a deep, green valley, surrounded by flowers and trees that are always in bloom, inhabited by animals that gently accompany people, and people’s daily lives are filled with love, creation and selfless dedication. This is a very small (only about 3% of the population) world of philosophers, who are always working hard to live in a perfect world of only love and harmony.
when you are in love
A Philosopher believes that love requires deep emotional and spiritual connection. You may also believe that reaching this ideal state requires a lot of pain and sacrifice. However, all the suffering is worth it when you find the perfect love. When that happy day comes, you will become a complete person and be able to create a better world with your lover.
At the beginning of a relationship, you tend to idealize your lover and imagine him to be the most amazing person in the world; you can even easily give up your own life for him. Later, when reality gradually takes over your life, you will be disappointed because you find that there is no real person who can match the romantic dream image created by your imagination. Fortunately, after the disillusionment, you gradually heal and slowly accept your partner’s flaws, although you still don’t give up trying to change him into the perfect image you had when you first fell in love.
Your best relationship type
Many studies have found that a male philosopher type is most likely to marry his mirror image: that is, to marry a female philosopher type. At the same time, research also points out that whether you are a male or female philosopher type, the happiest thing is to marry someone with the same love type. Philosophers married to Philosophers show minimal conflict than Philosophers married to any other relationship type.
If you are a female philosopher type
You will be happy with a philosopher-type partner, but you can also get along well with a writer-type (INFJ), an educator-type (ENFJ), or a journalist-type (ENFP). Because the Educator and Journalist types have extroverted traits, they can bring out your social side and balance your original introverted traits.
If you are a male philosopher type
Your best partner is a female philosopher or female writer (INFJ). The female writer type is a wise and reflective woman who can provide you with the elements you need for future success. One caveat: Make sure she’s not too strong on the J side; otherwise, she may be critical of your spontaneous style.
2. Spiritual Writer Type (INFJ)
If you are a writer type
Words are sacred to you. Through words, you can understand and express the mystery of life. When not writing, you are experiencing your other gift of listening, comforting and helping those who come to you for advice and guidance.
when you are in love
As for matters related to the soul, you prefer to express yourself in black and white. Poems, journals, and tender notes posted on the bathroom mirror are your favorite ways to express your love and devotion.
As a Writer (this type accounts for only 2% of the population), you tend to devote most of your time and energy to your lover. In fact, you are quite content if your lover is your only companion—that is, your best and only friend. Unfortunately, wanting one person to be your only emotional support can break your heart. You may decide to avoid everyone just to be with your lover, only to find out later that he or she is not the right person for you. At that time, you may have just deceived yourself into delaying an unfavorable relationship to convince yourself that the other person was the right person for you.
Your best relationship type
If you are a female writer type
Compared with the male writer type, you have a wider range of mate choices and can get along well with male writer types, scholars (INTP) or philosophers (INFP).
You might even get along well with an ESTP, the kind of man who will give you a great relationship.
If you are a male writer type
As an introverted man, he can usually develop a stress-free relationship with an introverted woman; therefore, the writer or philosopher type (INFP) is quite suitable for you. If you want a casual partner to balance your regular life, the Philosopher woman will make a great spouse.
3. Journalist type with adventurous traits (ENFP)
If you are a journalist type
You believe that life is rich and love is colorful and full of creativity. Even though God has combined the vigorous energy of a hunting dog with the passion of a honeymoon couple, it’s still only half of your never-ending passion for life.
when you are in love
‘Child’s play love’ is the best term to describe your love attitude: fun, lively, playful, cute, and at the same time always young at heart. No matter how old you are or how many times you have been hurt in love, you will always be an eternal optimist when it comes to love.
When you meet someone you find attractive, you’re not the type to proceed with caution. You are likely to fall passionately into love, quickly, casually and indulgently. You never learn to hold back, especially when you’re about to embark on a new and exciting relationship.
Yes, commitment scares you. This may explain why you are still single when you are 30, 40, 50 or older. But you absolutely love the intimacy of sharing something with someone. As long as you can find that special someone, you will settle down in your life.
You’re always ready for another taste of the ’love cocktail’! Who knows? This time you may be lucky enough to find someone who is willing to share the joy and adventure with you; and at the same time, indulge you in being yourself: a passionate, unrestrained, intelligent and imaginative lover of life.
Your best relationship type
If you are a female journalist type
You will have a good relationship with an Educator (ENFJ) or your mirror image, a Journalist. The Journalist type will become your best partner and lover - the kind of person who can bring endless joy and creativity to love.
If you choose the educator type, make sure his decisiveness is not too strong. If you accidentally choose a strong decisive person, he may inhibit your spontaneous creativity.
If you are a male journalist type
Usually matched with female journalists or philosophers (INFP). Both of these are thoughtful, romantic women who can complement your fun-loving nature.
4. Educator type with rational traits (ENFJ)
If you are an educator type
One thing that often pops up in your mind is: relationships. Creating and maintaining a meaningful and beautiful relationship is the source of happiness in your life. Whether you are dealing with business people, friends, family, or lovers, you value developing a quality relationship and making sure it continues to grow.
when you are in love
As an extroverted feeling person, you must like to communicate with your close partner, express feelings of love and tenderness through words, and at the same time discover what your partner really cares about.
Most Educators enjoy spending time with their partner; they can hardly tolerate their absence. Although you may have many friends, you want to include your significant other in your social circle as much as possible.
Crisis: Your 100% emotional investment in your lover may leave you feeling overloaded - so busy tending to your lover’s needs that you lack the energy to take care of yourself.
You may tend to take things too personally, so you feel hurt when your partner says something that sounds critical but isn’t. For example, if your partner just wants to tell you that you are beautiful, you may feel sad and mistakenly think that it is a sarcastic punch because he has been indifferent for the past 15 minutes and you are now It feels like he is making intentional comments about your appearance just to please you. Now the dispute really begins.
Still, at the beginning of a relationship, your lover can do no wrong. Although you have keen insight in many areas, when it comes to love, you will still fall in love with an ideal concept of ‘what you think a relationship should be like’, even though the real appearance may be very different from the imagined one. difference.
As the relationship slowly progresses, you will begin to expect the other person to give unconditionally and treat you with equal loyalty and unswerving love. If you feel that the other person is not giving you the same standard of care and support, you will communicate this in a very direct and sometimes unpleasant way.
Your best relationship type
If you are a female educator type
You will have a wonderful relationship with the male Educator type, or the opposite male Adventurer type (ISTP). With him, you may enjoy real excitement (water rafting, rock climbing, drag racing or bungee jumping for beginners), and at the same time, you will experience the most enjoyable life ever.
If you are a male educator type
You can get along well with female Educators, Journalists (ENFP) or Philosophers (INFP).
You can also have successful relationships with your opposite, the Adventurer type (ISTP). The down-to-earth and pragmatic nature of the Adventurer will keep you from losing touch with real life. At the same time, her relaxed and casual personality can calm your emotions when you are troubled by those ‘interpersonal problems’.
5. The Disciplined Scholar (INTP)
If you are a scholar
Information is your driving force. If you were not studying, analyzing, storing and memorizing this information, the world would be ignorant.
You have an uncanny ability to mold raw data into original, complex theories that explain how and why things happen. To you, life is a never-ending series of theories that constantly need to be proven or disproven.
when you are in love
As a scholar, you are likely to be an enigma to your lover. You can use your very sharp and rational thinking to interact with anyone in the logical cycle of wisdom.
A woman who once dated a scholar said the following:
‘He said he liked to argue about everything. One night I made a very simple request, but before I had a chance to respond, he had twisted all my words into something he thought was unreasonable. The origin of all this was just It’s just that I want to watch a love movie, and he wants to watch a science fiction movie.”
Scholars have no patience for fools. Your lover must be responsive, intelligent, and able to keep up with your exciting and rapid flood of ideas and plans. Although appearance has an impact, when you are choosing a lifelong partner, the most important thing to consider is the other person’s intelligence.
Although you may temporarily lose control emotionally when you are first attracted to someone, you will quickly adjust back and start thinking logically again.
You’ll quickly go from the sweet words at the beginning of a relationship like, ‘How much I love you.’ to the more practical, like: ‘How does this person fit my needs? About my ideals.’ What kind of logical and detailed plan should a lover have.”
No matter how good or attractive your partner is, he or she must satisfy your need for logic before you can commit love.
Your best relationship type
Even though savants are rare (only about 3% of the population), they tend to be strongly attracted to each other. However, our research shows that two scholarly couples are unhappy because they share the same emotional shortcomings. Among the problems that can occur include a lack of awareness of the subtle feelings in a relationship, and savants who tend to solve problems in their own imaginations rather than communicating with their partners.
Therefore, for scholars, the better pairings are as follows:
If you are a female scholar type
Your best matches are the Expert (INTJ), Field Marshal (ENTJ) and Inventor (ENTP).
If you pair up with a Field Marshal, the two of you will enjoy a relationship full of competition and innovation. When your partner is an Expert or Inventor, the two of you can engage in intelligent conversations and debates as they discuss great plans to transform the world.
If you are a male scholar type
Your ideal lover is a female writer type (INFJ). Her philosophical personality will attract you and help you get closer to the tender and emotional side of your personality.
Please note: As a male scholar, you may have difficulty evaluating a relationship and making emotional decisions.
As a result, you may be attracted to women with striking looks and seemingly sensual qualities, such as performers (ESFP) or journalists (ENFP).
Although these attractive women may seem irresistible at first, over the course of a long-term relationship you will find that their unique behavior and irresponsible personality will drive you crazy.
6. Practical Expert Type (INTJ)
If you are an expert
You are the most independent and strong-willed (some might say stubborn) of all love types. Once you decide to do something, whether it’s starting or ending a relationship, or anything else, you will act on your original decision. No one can dissuade you.
when you are in love
You, Mr. or Ms. Expert (only 2% of the population in society), are a deep thinker, constantly analyzing your relationships and constantly asking one question: Does this person fit my design of an ideal lover? ? The answer is usually ’no’ because your ability to create a blueprint for a ‘perfect lover’ usually exceeds your ability to find a match in the real world.
Talent and intelligence are often the two most important things you look for in a partner: you appreciate someone who is well educated and excels in his or her chosen field. Although you prefer people who are as smart and quick as you, you may fall in love with someone who is not as smart as you. When something like this happens, the question that always pops up in your mind is: “Does this person meet my standards of smartness?”
Your best relationship type
If you are a female expert type
You already know that you are not an ordinary traditional woman. If, in your early years, you thought that marriage did not belong to you, therefore, no matter how attractive or worthy a man you met, you would not marry.
Or if you decide to get married at a certain age, say 30, 40, or 50, you will reject any suitor who comes into your life before that point. You don’t care if Prince Charming walks to your door with a wedding ring and a big bouquet of roses ready. If he doesn’t show up at the time specified in your schedule, ignore it completely.
As a female expert, you will not pay attention to any pressure from family, friends or society. You will make your own decisions, and once you make a well-thought-out logical conclusion, it is almost impossible for you to change your mind. .
Your best partner will be a strong-willed man who appreciates your independence and uncompromising personality. Experts or masculine types (ESTJ) are both good candidates.
Macho style is an interesting choice. Since he is a strong, masculine man, you will be attracted to his talents and abilities. But pay attention to whether he is a strong feeling type. If so, his traditional traits may overshadow his other traits, and he may try to mold you into his ideal traditional wife while ignoring your true personality. Please pay special attention to this flaw in his personality.
If you are a male expert
You are a perfect match for a female Expert or Scholar type (INTP).
A scholar would be a good choice. Her flexible mind can engage you in a life full of wisdom, while her gentle and casual personality can prevent you from making yourself too nervous. By hanging out with a Scholar, you’ll learn how to relax and enjoy inspiring conversations.
7. Innovative Inventor Type (ENTP)
If you are an inventor type
You are the inventor, risk taker, and developer of new ideas and plans. And these new ideas and plans will either throw you into the abyss of bankruptcy or send you to the top of wealth and glory. Countless ideas are bouncing around in your head every minute, you can talk to anyone you know, and basically, you are the epitome of creativity.
when you are in love
You don’t fall in love easily: you are the kind of person who is likely to miss out on several ‘good partners’ until you feel you have found your ideal partner. As a result, you may stay single longer than your friends and family expect.
On the plus side, you can use your charm and sweet words to comfort your partner when he or she is angry. You are especially good at helping your partner see the logical side of something.
On the flip side, your speaking skills are so good that your partner may say provocative things, but you haven’t taken the time to face up to your relationship problems. Instead of facing the real problem, you would rather avoid it with your eloquent words and superficial knowledge. But you have to pay the price afterwards.
You tend to maintain a distance from the people you interact with. If your partner is a person with strong feelings, he may label you as ‘cold’, even though you only deal with others in the most natural way.
Even if you find the right person, you still need to maintain your uniqueness and personal space. In fact, what you need is a partner who lets you be alone when you need it, not someone who sticks to you 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.
Your best relationship type
If you are a female inventor type
Your ideal lover is the Field Marshal type (ENTJ). The Field Marshal’s self-confidence and independent personality are exactly what you crave, and they allow you to maintain some flexibility and independence. If you start a creative relationship with such a high-achieving man, this combination will allow you to share each other’s rich knowledge resources and jointly create a successful life.
If you are a male inventor type
You might like a female Scholar (INTP) or a Challenger (ESTP).
The Challenger would be an interesting choice and definitely worth it. You’ll have a partner who is more interested in your idea than you are; someone who can sell your brilliant idea to the highest bidder. No matter what happens, Inventors and Challengers have a never-ending energy.
8. Field Marshal type (ENTJ) who is strong on the outside but soft on the inside
If you are a field marshal type
You are a born leader and you have known it for a long time. This is why you have skipped other chapters in this book and turned directly to this part to read. You have little patience for small things, repetitive things, or things you already know.
The most unreserved of all love types, you have a tendency to get your own way but also make sure the other person enjoys a win-win situation. You revel in finding a successful person who shares your desire for the important things in life—creativity and achievement, power and performance.
when you are in love
Your grace and charisma will attract the opposite sex and ensure that your date book is always full. Your problem is not how to attract the opposite sex, but how to choose the right partner who will complement what you call your ‘ideal empire’, a partner who can pursue your ideal life with you.
As a competitive Field Marshal, you are interested in whether you can win the love of a beautiful woman; this kind of challenge is very exciting for you. While sexual chemistry is important, in the long run, a Field Marshal will prefer a partner whose level of achievement and brain energy matches his or her own.
Once you are in a relationship, you strive to create a noble life. Your favorite pastime is playing brainstorming games with your significant other to come up with a great idea that will make you both healthier and happier.
Your best relationship type
If you are a female field marshal type
Your best partner is a male field marshal type or an ESTJ type. Being with a Field Marshal is like being with a partner who is an equal, and a game of positive performance may be played between the two of you, as the two of you are constantly trying to outdo each other intellectually. , emotionally, sexually or otherwise. Most of the time, such games are exciting, although the constant competition can weaken your relationship and may require you to spend some time apart.
If you are attracted to men with an old-fashioned style, the macho type is a good choice. They will open the door for you when getting in and out of the car and give you a sense of financial and emotional security. You’ll get tired of playing the role of a strong woman and can relax and let this ‘ultimate protector’ take care of you.
However, make sure that this masculine type is not too strong in feeling (S) bias. If he is a very strong feeling type, he may not be able to keep up with this wonderful intuitive thinking, and you may think he is too boring.
If you are a male field marshal type
The female scholar type (INTP), inventor type (ENTP), masculine type (ESTJ) or field marshal type are all good choices for you. You may clash with the Field Marshal type, but the energy generated in your relationship far outweighs any heated arguments.
9. Reliable Caregiver Type (ISFJ)
If you are a caregiver type
You are the perfect person to be the perfect parent. Your greatest desire is to take care of others in your considerate, gentle, and giving way. This trait makes others feel safe, warm, and cared for.
Your highest priority is building a family, which is more important to you than a career or other interests. Although your job may be going well, there is nothing in your life that makes you happier than taking care of your children and your significant other.
when you are in love
As a Caregiver, you believe that love symbolizes security, responsibility, dedication, marriage and children. These words may scare some relationship types, but for you, these are exactly the kind of love you want.
Like other security seekers, you are always cautious at the beginning of a relationship. You want to make sure your prospective partner is a loyal and reliable spouse and parent.
Once you decide on your partner, you maintain an unwavering devotion to him. Even if the relationship is terrible, you are not willing to give up because you value your dedication to your partner.
Sometimes you will suffer for following the rules of tradition. You may be in a relationship that sucks and you can’t get out of it, even though you should.
Your best relationship type
If you are a female caregiver type
You can have a long-lasting relationship with a male caregiver (IsFJ), civil servant (ISTJ) or master (ESFJ).
The male caregiver type is a gentle companion who matches your thoughtful approach and desire to care for others, especially family members.
A master type can be of great help. He can help you handle all the social matters that you cannot avoid. His outgoing personality perfectly complements your more reserved personality.
If you are a male caregiver type
You can develop a good relationship with a female Caregiver or Servant Type (ISTJ). The calm and steady nature of the civil servant can help you maintain correct insight when things get upset or you start to lose your cool thinking.
10. The step-by-step civil servant type (ISTJ)
If you are a civil servant
You are the glue that holds the fragments of civilization together. Your trademarks are Task, Discipline, Responsibility and Organization. Without your loyal efforts, many existing successful businesses, organizations, and groups would fall to pieces.
when you are in love
You are one of the most pragmatic of all love types, and you are not too moved by excessive romantic gestures. You also don’t need the constant stimulation of a date. You’ll be content with a dinner at home, a funny movie, and the company of your loved one.
When it comes to the positioning of male and female roles, your values are also very traditional. You still believe that a husband should be the breadwinner and a wife should be responsible for maintaining a clean and organized home.
Your strong need for security causes you to avoid the risks of starting a relationship. You’ll usually develop a romance with someone you’ve known for a long time: a co-worker, a family friend, or a classmate. Because you are the ultimate ’nest builder,’ you want to be very sure that your future partner is someone who can take care of you and provide for your family before you let him or her get closer to you.
The qualities you want in your partner are loyalty, security and responsibility. You’re not particularly moved by your partner’s vision of the future or lofty ideals; you want to know what your partner can bring to a serious relationship right now.
Your best relationship type
If you are a female civil servant
You might like a male civil servant, an accomplished macho type (ESTJ), or a caregiver type (ISFJ) who can provide you with emotional support.
If you are a male civil servant type
You will have a good relationship with a female civil servant or caregiver type (ISFJ). The female civil servant type has a disciplined and often responsible personality, which can perfectly complement your desire for a traditional family. The caregiver type is a woman who helps you build the family of your dreams with her loving way and ‘standard mother’ personality.
11. The caring master type (ESFJ)
If you are a master type
During tense, stressful days, we should be grateful for the presence of the most wonderful person—the one who takes care of us and helps us relax—the Host. You are a gracious person, the life of parties and celebrations, who takes pleasure in serving others and makes sure that every guest is well fed and well taken care of.
When it comes to hosting any kind of social event, be it a birthday party, anniversary celebration or any gathering, you can never hide your excitement. Once the date for that event is announced, your head starts planning and imagining how happy each guest will be.
when you are in love
As a Host, one of your deepest dreams is to have a successful wedding: great crowds, food, music, laughter, and a promise of eternal unity.
Before you walk onto the wedding stage, you will experience a passionate and sometimes conflicting relationship with your partner. You are the kind of person who has the courage to express your feelings in a relationship. Because of your emotional investment and loyalty to your partner, you may be reluctant to end a long-term relationship that has gone sour. Fortunately, as you learn your lesson, you’ll find the courage to say ’no’ to a mismatched partner and devote an abundant amount of energy to cultivating a healthy and mutually satisfying relationship.
Your best relationship type
If you are a female dominant type
Your best match is the Dominant or Big Man type (ESTJ). The male host type will be the co-host of your banquet, while the alpha male type is a traditional male who can give the family a strong, masculine luster.
If you are a male dominant type
Your ideal relationship type is a female dominator type, or a similarly tender but more domestic caregiver type (ISFJ).
The caregiver type is a standard ‘mom’ and will also be your quieter ideal partner. While you enjoy caring for everyone in a fun and social way, she enjoys quiet time and tenderly cares for her family: making sure your shirts are ironed and your children’s needs are met.
12. Excellent Leadership Masculine Type (ESTJ)
If you are a macho type
You are an outstanding and respected individual among everyone because you are able to express what is in your heart without causing commotion.
Of course, those who respect you may feel intimidated because they don’t see your softer side: the loyalty you give only to those who deserve it, the loyalty you give to supporting and protecting your friends, family, and country. .
when you are in love
For you, love is a giving process that must be taken seriously. Once you give your all to that person, you have decided that you want to spend the rest of your life with that person.
You are also the type of person who likes to control everything in your life, including your love life. You’ll most likely be the one who plans most of the dates (unless you’re dating an equally dominant Field Marshal or Macho Man) and the one who takes care of the household after marriage.
Because of your direct approach, you may unintentionally hurt your partner’s feelings. This happens especially if your partner is one of the Feeling love types.
Even so, you don’t see your outspoken tone as a relationship barrier, and you don’t mean to hurt the other person. You’re just interacting with your partner in a realistic way, and you want to cut through the red tape so that you can create a successful relationship, marriage, and family life together.
Your best relationship type
If you are a female macho type
You can meet men anywhere and at any time, but many men seem to be put off by your direct attitude. No matter where you go, you always meet men who are easily frightened. They can’t see through the gentleness behind your ’tough’ appearance.
Your wisest choice is an alpha male or a field marshal (ENTJ), as long as he is not too strong in his intuitive bias. If your Field Marshal is a highly intuitive type, he may gradually become bored with your practical side, and you may eventually drive yourself crazy with his crazy plans and designs.
The advantage of being in a relationship with one of these two types of men is that you can enjoy a high standard of life as a result. Both of them are probably well-educated and on the fast track to success. The disadvantage is that you and your significant other may compete or compete with each other. A battle of minds may ignite to determine which of you is the most accomplished.
If you are a male macho type
Female civil servants (ISTJ), masters (ESFJ), macho types, experts (INTJ) and field marshals (ENTJ) are all good romantic partners for you. The first three can help you ‘build a nest’ and establish the reliable family life you desire; the latter two can give you wisdom and understanding of the good things in life.
If you choose the Field Marshal or Expert type, try to find an Intuitive type who is not particularly strong. If your partner scores high on the intuitive bias, she will overwhelm you with her fantastic ideas and endless dreams; and you will wonder why she is always so unrealistic?
13. Romantic and alternative artist type (ISFP)
If you are an artist type
You are a natural fragrance, good at comforting others, bringing happiness to others, and teaching your other half how to appreciate nature and all life. But while you bring joy to others, you can easily feel sad at the same time, all because you fail to see your own strengths and only see your flaws.
when you are in love
For you, love is an experience of ’either you have the whole world, or you have nothing.’ Since you tend to close yourself in your little world and experience love with a persistent heart, you may also be hurt by love.
In order to please your lover and maintain the relationship, you may make changes in your life, such as moving, changing jobs, or saying goodbye to your old friends.
If your lover happens to be the unresponsive and demanding type of person, you may be blamed and ordered by him because you will do anything for love.
As an artist, dedication and flexibility are the two most important qualities you bring to a relationship. Your sincere and almost innocent expression of love will make the right lover (and yourself) very happy.
But make sure you choose a compatible partner, because once you fall in love, you’re on an almost unstoppable roller coaster.
Your best relationship type
If you are a female artist type
You would do well with a male Artist, Adventurer (ISTP), Performer (ESFP) or Challenger (ESTP) type.
The outgoing personalities of Performers and Challengers can lure you out of your warm shell. They’ll provide the entertainment and excitement you need to balance your low-key personality.
If you are a male artist type
You would be a perfect match with another female Artist type because she has an empathic introvert nature and she can share your deep feelings about children, animals, and the outdoors.
14. Adventurer type who seeks innovation and change (ISTP)
If you are an adventurer type
You pursue a life of excitement and anything that revolves around your interests, whether it’s racing, skydiving, drag racing, surfing, or any other activity that satisfies your desire for excitement. Independence is your name and seeking adventure is your game.
You are completely fearless when trying any new experience. Always willing to try a new adventure. Of course, most of the time you’re on your own, since others may be afraid to engage in rash moves.
when you are in love
Your romance will generally be related to your favorite activities and interests, such as hiking, camping, surfing, car repair, carpentry, gardening, origami, pottery, painting or anything that allows you to use your hands and be creative.
You especially enjoy arts and crafts because you enjoy working with your hands and also enjoy seeing and touching the finished products of your creations. You like to hear sincere compliments after completing a piece of work.
As an Adventurer, you require your partner to respect your autonomy, which is a desire for private space and independence. Of course, if you spend too much time alone, your partner will feel that you no longer love them. When this happens, it may be time to relax your need for personal space a little to develop a more intimate relationship with your partner.
Your best relationship type
If you are a female adventurer type
Your best choices are male adventurers, challengers (ESTP) or your opposite, educator (ENFJ). If you choose the Adventurer type, you’ll be with someone who understands and accepts your unique ideas, such as your need for private space and autonomy or your desire for challenge and excitement.
If you choose the Challenger, you’ll be with the kind of partner who ignites you with fun, spontaneity, and excitement. Of course, when you choose a man who is active in social activities, sometimes you also hope that he can slow down and relax together.
If you are with the Educator type, his creative and imaginative personality will surprise you and be challenging at the same time. With him as your mentor, your world will be richer than it was before. Although there will be times when you don’t understand what he says, they can make you feel better about yourself and the world around you.
If you are a male adventurer type
Your best partners are female adventurers, artists (ISFP), or educators (ENFJ). The Adventurer and Artist types are both quiet, pragmatic and spontaneous, and they complement your free-spirited and independent personality.
The female educator type is also a suitable spouse for you. She can bring you out of your protective shell while inspiring you with her warmth.
15. The Attractive Performer (ESFP)
If you are a performer type
You love to entertain people and bring them (and yourself) as much love, laughter, and enthusiasm as you can. As a performer, you crave the spotlight and enjoy interacting with all the people in your happy circle. The most unhappy thing is to be alone, but fortunately, you are not often alone. For the true performer, life is a never-ending party.
when you are in love
There are no limits to how you express love and how intimate your sexual relationship is. Being with your lover can easily turn into a 24/7 indulgence in good food, drink, and exciting fun.
Whether you are attending a party or taking a break, you always want to maintain a harmonious relationship with the other person. Because you hate conflict, you will feel quite uncomfortable if two people quarrel. If you feel that the relationship is too disharmonious, you may suddenly pack up and leave your old lover, leaving him there confused.
Except for temporary setbacks in love, you rarely have long-term depression. For you, love is a never-ending source of joy. And you yourself are undoubtedly the love booster that many people have been looking for all their lives.
Your best relationship type
If you are a female performer type
Your preferred relationship type is the Male Performer or Challenger (ESTP). With one of these two, life is a dazzling sparkle, a never-ending string of parties and fun social events. Since you both know so many people, you will most likely have a large wedding ceremony.
If you are a male performer type
Your best relationship type is the Performer or Artist (ISFP). The Artist type may provide the tenderness that is lacking in your life, while the dynamic Performer type will match your high energy levels and keep the family fire burning.
16. Charismatic Challenger Type (ESTP)
If you are a challenger type
You are the kind of person who makes things happen. Your energetic, charming and charismatic style is bound to make everything you do exciting. You are also very good at observing others and making accurate judgments about their personalities. If you’re more extreme, you can use this information to get what you want. Others may say that you are playing tricks, but to yourself, you are just playing with the world in a free and easy mood.
when you are in love
For you, love represents excitement and never-ending joy. You want a partner who can enjoy erotic pleasure with you, and you want to enjoy the blessings of life with your significant other.
If you find someone you really like, you are good at opening up your optimistic and natural personality to attract the other person’s admiration. As a lover, you are patient, skillful and always know how to please.
When it comes to relationships, predictability can turn you off. If you have a choice, you want a relationship that is constantly changing and has one adventure after another.
After a while, the other person may give up trying to change your freewheeling attitude, and he will wisely accept your innate cheerful personality. Of course, you don’t really care what your partner or anyone else thinks; you’re happy with your lifestyle and wouldn’t change it for anything.
Your best relationship type
If you are a female challenger type
You will get along well with a male Challenger or Invention Type (ENTP). You are also often attracted to the inventor’s wisdom and creativity, but are often led away by his overly theoretical plans. It follows that you are better off with an Inventor type whose intuitive tendencies are not particularly strong.
If you are a male challenger type
You would do well with a female Challenger, Adventurer (ISTP), Artist (ISFP) or Performer (ESFP). It would also be good if you choose a writer type (INFJ) who is completely opposite to you, because she can fulfill your need to help others and improve the world, rather than just tasting the sweetness of life without any feedback.
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